Another touchy subject in the desi community! (Perhaps it's touchy in every community but we're desis and so I'm referring to it as it pertains to us with our specific issues.)
I would like to know where men get the idea that simply by showing that they are attracted to you (by undressing) and would like to engage in the act of intercourse, the woman should be "prepped and ready"?
Woman's body is like a steam engine. You need to light up the cola, let the water boil and turn into steam before the engine starts cranking...but man is like an electric car...that turns on without touching even.... by remote control...the problem is battery life is very short...more than often ghar se 2 meel door aa ke khatam ho jaati hai....sawaari na aagay ki na peechhay ki.
Jawab nahiN hai. Kia pyar se jamjhaya hai. Kia nafasat sey kaam liya hay. Maza aagaya.
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Why not consider foreplay in a larger context? Maybe those five to ten minutes preceding intercourse would be simpler or less necessary if the rest of the relationship were built on caring and consideration. It works both ways! Obviously this becomes more important as time goes on.
A friend of mine told me that the biggest turn-on for her was her husband who got up to put the baby to sleep in the middle of the night so she could sleep - and was more than happy to be sexy for him when she woke up.
You have a point…but, see foreplay for men is like flipping a light switch… Go from 0-60 in no time… Foreplay for men is like diving in a pool and not coming up… I mean you… you understand… But then after enough practice for the sake of relationship and … I guess it’s like putting money in a CD.
I wish I can get time to practice more of what you are preaching but can’t any more…
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I am on ultimatum…
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Just don’t ask me why…
Shirin,
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Yeh to bahut hi muamma wali baat hai ,Baby ke aane ke liye foreplay ,baby ke janam se pehle ya rab kahan se layen.?
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Zara apne saheli se yeh to pooch ke batye ke baby se pahle kaise turn kiya thha yaarab 
Woh afsaana jise anjaam tak, laana na ho mumkin
Use ek KHoobsoorat moR dekar, chhoRna achha
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Originally posted by NYAhmadi:
**Couples in Pakistan (those who live in extended family setups) don’t get much chances to be intimate and whenever they do, it is straight to the dashes (pretty much like race horses out of their gates). It is sad and sorrowful as doing it in a hurry takes the fun out of it. It appears that the only purpose of intimacy is reproduction.
I think warming up is as essential part of exercise as the exercise itself.
Let’s hear your thoughts about it. Please take your time. **
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NYA - the extended family setup definitely ruins the whole thing doesn't it ? Plus how are they expected to be intimate when other family members are under the same roof. plus I think lack of education in that matter also plays a role.
"Not only is life a bitch, it has puppies."
Adrienne Gusoff.
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Originally posted by paki_krusty:
... when other family members are under the same roof...
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under the same roof of the same room... in many cases.
hehe yeah i am wondering how it would be like just to sleep on the bed in the same house and in the same room as your other family members.
But yeah for those people in that situation i would have to say, forget Foreplay and as KOHALIC said hehe Explore things inside out, before abba or amma returns from the bazaar !!