forced to have a baby

Exactly.

When people say “Allah will provide”…thats what they probably think, that others will help them out…its the same reason many women still dont get an education and still don’t work b/c they think their husbands will be alive forever…and think “Allah will provide” if something like that happens…

Forgive me if I repeat myself but no one in their right mind would ever want to be in a position to ACCEPT zakat or welfare or charity…you should pray that your halaat are never that bad..you should always want to be in a position that you can give..and not receive