And rightfully they SHOULD think about those things first before taking such a huge step!
Common sense and having belief in Allah swt ARE NOT MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE.
This is my stance on marriage and financial security–You marry someone who is established and has a job and has ambition to do better in life. That is called making an educated and informed decision. If that money is lost for whatever reason, or the person loses their job etc, halaat buray ho jatay hain THAT is kismat.
The same goes for children. If you’re living on food stamps and welfare and your parents are paying rent for your place, its irresponsible to deliberately bring a child in to the world. But if you are set and things take a turn for the worst…not to worry because Allah swt will provide.
WOW and this is helpful…how?
Obviously you find it so funny that he’s looking for another wife, so yeah go ahead and have the first child asap…cz who knows her husband may or may not leave her
Stop using silly scare tactics and claim they are part of religion..b/c they’re not.
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Rest the mother of 13 kidz is a real example for those couples who fear how to raise their kidz in case some misfortunates happened. Strong belief in Allah SWT! ke Woh hi sb ka Raziq hy, and a lil bit common sense k yeh wohi Rab hay jo duniya ke tamal makhlooq ko pal rahi hay.
