^Oh I know it, Deebs. LOL, this is all just so ridiculous that I find it somewhat funny. For the guy’s dad to get “angry” about there being no baby yet. Yes, there are 2 sides to a story and maybe he wasn’t angry and the OP perceives it as such. The husband is young, they’re not financially secure…these demands (let alone having a baby) can put a lot of strain on the couple’s relationship. I understand that maybe they feel that they won’t live long enough…and want to see a grandchild…but it ultimately depends upon Allah. And she brought up that the pressure is due to her husband being the only son in his family…and in this case, I hope they won’t throw a cow if the first child (whenever it’s born) turns out to be a girl.
The madness 