Re: Forbidden Fruit - Have you indulged?
Zareen, it depends upon a person’s definition of attraction and lust. For some…the word “lust” is used in a more lax way and is synonymous with attraction. For others…they associate “lust” with sexual feelings…which is maybe how you see it. People’s perceptions vary.
You may find Salman Khan very very attractive…you might have fantasies of having a cup of chai with him…or being opposite him in a movie…or even of marrying him. And some might see that as lusting after him.
We’re all human…and the way I see it…Allah created feelings of attraction/lust within us just as He created anger, jealousy, etc. They’re natural…the important thing is to exercise them within the limits Allah has set. But I don’t see anything wrong in admitting it. I’ve lusted after Aamir Khan for a long time…now I find him annoying, lol.