I remember I went to Pakistan 3 years after I got married and every aunty that visited would ask me why I still didn’t have kids, and that I would eventually get old and be unable to conceive and that I was missing out on life and that having kids is of utmost importance to sustain my marriage otherwise the guys go for second marriage. Phew. So I would just say, aap dua karey insha’Allah humara bhi yehi plan hai ki bachay ho jaye’en ab :halo:
And then 6 years went by and we still didn’t have kids so whenever I entered a ladies gathering I was looked upon with sneaky little eyes wandering toward my belly to see perhaps I was godh bhari 
And then I had a daughter and within few months the question was when are we having our next baby and that Allah tumhay beta dey. So I had another beti 3 years later and now everyone wants to know beta kab ho raha hai.
If I ever have a beta, I would perhaps be asked ki dusra beta kab ho raha hai because one is never enough.
So the moral of the story is, smile your way through their questions and in from one ear and out the other!