For some odd reason....

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Re: For some odd reason…

@MIAinVA

:hinna: Sehrysh… I’ll let you in on a secret, no husband will EVER admit those (the list of things you want your husband to say) … he will not say them out aloud to you. It took me three years just to get my husband to actually admit that he values all that I do

I dont know why, but somehow men have this perception (in general) that if you let a woman know how much you value her, she will start taking you for granted and not respect you anymore aur “sar par charh jaye gi” :hinna: You have to spend a lot of time convincing them otherwise.

That’s not true. You can’t generalize. I’ve only been married 4 months and my husband appreciates me pretty much everyday! Maybe it’s coz we’re newly weds but I have enough faith in him that he will continue to appreciate me for the rest of our lives.

I think as a couple you should be each others best friend. Being each other’s best friend automatically takes care of so many problems that arise in a marriage.

But every marriage has its own dynamics. Some couples are best friends and I think that’s what every girl would ideally want. Some couples aren’t best friends and just settle into their unique roles as a husband and wife. Some couples, actually some wives are constantly playing mind games with their husbands but it works for them!