For people whose parents..

[terebina786]

Re: For people whose parents..

@Paheli00

** BTW, speaking of dadi’s being someone else’s nani…my dadi had 4 sons and 4 daughters. 1 of my phuppos also lived in the same building as us (across the street from dadi). Her daughter is a few years younger than me and we always played together. My cousin could do no wrong…lol. Maybe it’s b/c my phuppo was her daughter or maybe it’s b/c she didn’t like my mother…whatever the reason was…I remember my dadi being very biased towards my cousin. Its funny b/c this phuppo’s daughter and I are still very close…and when we talk about stories of us growing up…her memories of my dadi (ie. her nani) are very different than my memories. Based on how that woman treated us, if you heard us talk you’d think we were talking about 2 different people!

This word for word sounds like me and my cousin. My phuppo’s daughter could do NO wrong even though she was an evil b*tch, while I did everything wrong apparently. The only difference between your story and mine is that I no longer speak to my cousin. When my dadi died, yes I cried but it was just because of seeing the sadness around, my cousin, on the other hand, tried to throw herself into the grave to be with her.