How many of you men would be okay with your wife (current/future) deciding whether she wanted to stay home or work? Before kids, after kids? I'm not asking if you would be okay with her working or not, I'm asking if you would leave it up to her and let her decide? Be honest :)
I'll just be stating what many have said here. After marriage, it's never an individual decision. Many factors have to be considered mutually. On the flip side, if the guy decides that he wants to be a pilot and travel the world, would the wife be okay with it? Would she be okay after they have kids?