For men: Career or home, would you let your wife decide?

I can see what you're saying, and many others have said this to me too :) But for me, marrying a woman from my career would give us a bond and an understanding that I have seen first hand amongst other similar couples and greatly admired.

I mean at the end of the day, as they say in Pakistan, rishtay aasmaan main bantay hain so you never know of course, but it is a preference of mine!