For men: Career or home, would you let your wife decide?

[pak-one]

@PyariCgudia

Pak-One, when your wife is ready to spew out a 9 lb hefty Pakistani baby from her loins, you want a man catching it or a woman?

In that case, let there be career women. There is a need for those of us who choose to work.

Doesn’t matter sadzz, I’ve seen this syndrome before. When this one here has kids, his daughters will go to top notch IVY league schools and run for president. It all changes when its a blood relative.

My dad was the same - didn’t want my mom to work. He’s been busting his two daughters to go through an ordeal of schooling, to work. Not to sit at home. He hears about families wanting educated professional degree girls and then stopping their careers, because “well our beta is making money, so that’s enough” and it makes his blood boil. Meanwhile, he stopped my mom from doing some coursework here.

People change - the other day dad was like “will you help your mom get a job after I die? I don’t want her to be left with nothing”. I was like “Why didn’t you think of that earlier on when you pulled her out of school to have your babies?”

Men. Idiots.

You’re making assumptions well beyond your reach.

•     As for the Dr. delivering the baby, it should be the best person for the job. Not my call. Thanks for the graphic description and the analogy of the baby being a basketball to pass around.
  

•     I am far for being ready for marriage, even if were this would be decided by me and the future wife, not a peanut gallery in an anonymous message board.
  

•     Sure people change, there is no guarantee that my views will stay the same. Did you just call your father an idiot for changing his views?