For men: Career or home, would you let your wife decide?

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@zobia

“an idle mind is the devil’s workshop”

well husband should help her wife in every aspect and in every dimension of life like Prophet Muhammad PBUH helped Hazrat Khadija.

in initial years of marriage, wifes do get bored sitting at home, so let them work, and after they have kids request her to stop and request her to concentrate in her house and in her social circle. mean while she can do (if her husband is making some good fortune) do some exciting activities. and ask her to resume her work after 7-8 years.

and they should not only think about their marriage but also should be some active member of community.

well this is how i think and this is what i have extracted from the lives of ppl in my surrounding.

but it varies from family to family, cuz if the husbands income is not sounding then wife should help him out and help him to grow so she should work then.

Zobia, do u even know what being out of work 7-8 years in certain fields can mean? it means starting from scratch. Requesting her to leave her job… why does a husband need to request? why not discuss the options before trying for a child and then deciding what would be the best thing to do..

i dunno what field ur in… but 7-8 years.. or even 2+ in mine is a long time.