(for men)are you or would you be close to your in-laws?

[princessjojo]

Re: (for men)are you or would you be close to your in-laws?

@EDAL

They are

@EDAL

Where does it say its haram to have the same last name as your husband? Is there some fatwa I missed out on this, in the United States most U.S couples have the same last name?

Some people just like to make everything haram, they have turned this beautiful simple humble religion into nothing but rules and regulations, haram this and haram that.

Follow the kufar? Well why do we live in the West then? We can’t totally isolate ourselves, i mean why use email, computers, facebook, pay US taxes, celebrate mothers day, that’s all stuff kufars started to no?

Sorry I don’t take that isolationist form of view when it comes to being a Muslim, we live in the West and we have to integrate to some degree, this all of topic though, sorry to the orig poster.

Yes EDAL. I know you do not have an isolationist form of pov. Certainly not with the slick hair and fun you had and keep reminiscing.

You integrate where it suits your purpose. Must be a manifestation of some insecurity somewhere.

You do not integrate into the West when you want to continue feeling like women are owned by men.
You integrate with the West when you want your wife to take on your last name.
You do not integrate when you want your wife to work harder than you to fit in with in-laws.

If you think Islam is a humble religion, then turn into a humble human and follower. And you say women are owned by men. Lol.