(for men)are you or would you be close to your in-laws?

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Re: (for men)are you or would you be close to your in-laws?

@Nisha25

or do you see it as a girl married into your family so she needs to make more of an effort…

or would you see it as a girl and guy marry into each others families so both need to make the effort…

or would you stay far away from both sets of inlaws and try to meet up with them oh say every 10 yrs or so…

It should be both ways. Spend time with both sets of parents. For instance, holiday lunch at one’s house, and dinner at the others? If they all get along fine, just do it together, the more the merrier; of course logistics permitting all that.