(for men)are you or would you be close to your in-laws?

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Re: (for men)are you or would you be close to your in-laws?

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… but the girl has come into my family, taken on my last name (and that of my father, grandfather etc..) thus she is carrying on their lineage and “nasl”…

Girl does not have to take guy’s last name. In fact Islam prefer people be called by their father’s name and thats how it will happen on the day of judgement too.

A Muslim Woman’s Surname After Marriage

http://www.usc.edu/schools/college/crcc/engagement/resources/texts/muslim/quran/033.qmt.html#033.005

Woman taking her husband’s surname after marriage - Islam Question & Answer

"Call them by (the names of) their fathers: that is juster in the sight of Allah. But if ye know not their father’s (names, call them) your Brothers in faith, or your maulas. But there is no blame on you if ye make a mistake therein: (what counts is) the intention of your hearts: and Allah is Oft-Returning, Most Merciful. "