Incorrect generalization and assumptions based on stereotypes and misconceptions abt women's morality and sexuality.
Totally agree with you there, Sara. This is such a loaded question that I doubt there's a one-size-fits-all answer to it. Assuming that the husband and wife love each other, have a healthy relationship and have a good understanding between them, intimacy won't feel like a burden. It's such an old-fashioned mentality to think of "desire" as something only men have. Women enjoy it as much as men do, if not more. It's only when we're brainwashed by our culture that it becomes scary, abnormal or forbidden. It's normal for there to be times when either partner may not be "in the mood" (because of various issues like stress, tiredness, illness) and it's completely okay to say that you really can't do anything that day. But at the same time, even when you aren't in the mood, but you go for it anyways to make your partner happy, chances are you end up enjoying it as well. The bottom line is be open to your partner, be loving and giving, and don't overthink it, and the rest pretty much falls into place.