I thought she was asking how your husband can get you into the mood, when your not in the mood for some lovin.
SO my answer was foreplay.
but i got confused after stoppits post!
egads. i dunno what you consider foreplay but if the lady ain't in the mood for lovin how is the foreplay gonna materialise?? GET OFF, I HAVE A HEADACHE etc etc
i think the poster is basically guys men = horny 100% of the time (not true btw), so what can one do to ensure the lady feels that way more often?
Milly has kindly shared for us what works for her.
If not money then you're wife needs to feel loved and stress-free. Who's gonna be up for going to all that effort when you have to cook and clean etc. Hubby needs to chip in to make sure wifey has time to relax and pamper herself plus all that being romantic garbage. Happy, relaxed wife will more likely to be in the mood, provinding she's not turned off by the size of that belly.