if the Saas is from pakistan or someone who is living in west?
what are the pro and cons?
PS: girls, this is what you really want to ask etc 
My Saas lives in pakistan..
…So i always visit her as a guest
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Saas should live in Pakistan, you and hubby should live in the United States post-2001 new immigration policies.
Now that is what I call paradise.
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educated saas or uneducated one?
religious or not religious?
liberal or conservative?
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educated
not religious
liberal
Hah! Very few such saas's exist.
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but an educated liberal saas may put her bahu through the grinder too..
very diff issues, you may not be sophisticated enough, or social enough, polished enough, outgoing enough, fit enough, active enough
PS; yes I have seen this happen..
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Mine is Very religious..But 
…khair ..Not comments .
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i dont think it matters at all where the saas is, how educated she is (maybe it does when it comes to giving advice.. if required)..
as long as there is a level of respect and privacy.. it's all good.
Ive seen good and bad saasein in both places and of both levels of education (or no education). It doesnt make a difference unless one respects the other..
but an educated liberal saas may put her bahu through the grinder too.. very diff issues, you may not be sophisticated enough, or social enough, polished enough, outgoing enough, fit enough, active enough
PS; yes I have seen this happen..
X2, even an uneducated saas can put one through that..
having said that, saas put their son-in-laws through the same grinder.. seen it happen
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probably true but asking question from the ladies cuz it does not look like the guys really are bothered about the MIL thing .
educated saas or uneducated one? religious or not religious? liberal or conservative?
Honestly, it doesn't matter where she's from, how educated she is or how devoted she is to god, it simply boils down to her willingness to share her son's life with about the second most important person in his life.
second most important person in his life????
The wife better be the most important person in his life! :D
Honestly, it doesn't matter where she's from, how educated she is or how devoted she is to god, it simply boils down to her willingness to share her son's life with about the second most important person in his life.
second most important person in his life????
The wife better be the most important person in his life! :D
figure it out amongst yerselves :)
probably true but asking question from the ladies cuz it does not look like the guys really are bothered about the MIL thing .
... because they dont live their saasaa'n
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majority of ladies complaining about their saas, nand, dewrani, jethani etc dont live with them either :)
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^wrong... they do/or did for x # of yrs...specially with their saas :) ....
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maybe the thing is.. solution i guess is to have a dont care attitude... if a girl aint living with her saas, then she shouldnt even bother fretting about the stuff... she shuold get a job or do something to keep herself occupied... same goes for the saas
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I say all the saasz in American/UK should be deported to Pakistan . Of course it will be for the greater good and betterment of their DIL .
educated not religious
oxymoron
Tailor-made saas, educated and liberal.. religious but not a fanatic.