Re: for all married men, need your views...
^Baji Jee, i know some in-laws are cruel/judgemental/possessive and difficult to deal with, some women may justifiably want to live in a separate house, but there are examples of the opposite too. I know a couple, wife started asking for living in separate house soon after marriage and that too in a different city. After 1 year the guy finally bought a new house and shifted. After 2 months, the wife's family (1 mom and 1 sister) moved into the new house and rented their own. And now that couple is divorced.
I am saying that its not a rule that wife has to have a separate house and it should be decided on individual basis.
These issues should be and must be discussed prior to marriage, it would solve a lot of problems in relationship.