Well, since I am bored, so here it goes Icono Uncle. :D
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**So basically if the girl doesn't demand for a separate accomodation prior to marriage, she loses the right for it? How interesting. So how the in-laws get along with their DIL or how they treat her after marriage, it's irrelevant and she can no longer ask to be moved - because, oops, too late - why didn't she ask for a separate house *before *marriage!
How can a girl know what the situation will be really like with her in-laws without first getting married and living with her in-laws? What if all is well and dandy prior to marriage and completely opposite after marriage?
She has a right to ask for separate accomodation - whether or not she's mentioned it before marriage.**
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So is it in our 1973 act or 18th amendment or "athwanja 2b" that a man has to provide a sepatae house to his wife? or is it written in Quran? Plz enlighten me. I agree that if couple have expectations from each other these shud be brought upfront.
We can only comment on what is provided to us of this story, according to the poster she is treated well by in laws, so mistreatment is not teh issue here.
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*First, he does not have to *buy a new house. He can rent. She wants separate accomodation and being his wife, she would most likely know what they can and cannot afford. He is obliged to provide for her and his kids within his means, of course.
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Even renting a house and then furnishing it and running it is not very easy for an average person, but, i guess this is cannot be commented upon unless we know the financial situation of the guy.
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**As for having enough time to take care of his parents and two houses simultaneously - well, considering they will reside in the same city, it won't be too difficult to keep a good eye on parents, visit them often, etc. It's not like his parents are incapable of surviving without him - or that they are physically dependent and need him every second of the day. If he sees them couple times a week, that can be easily fit into his schedule.
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Couple of times a week is enough? well thats a very subjective thing, may be he would like to see his parents everyday.