Well, sine i have to go against the majority opinion in Life 1 so:
Did this girl tell her that she will like to have a separate house after marriage? If not then she has no right to ask for it.
**I am sure you meant him - but anyway, I’ll assume it’s the husband we’re talking about. **
**So basically if the girl doesn’t demand for a separate accomodation prior to marriage, she loses the right for it? How interesting. So how the in-laws get along with their DIL or how they treat her after marriage, it’s irrelevant and she can no longer ask to be moved - because, oops, too late - why didn’t she ask for a separate house *before *marriage! **
**How can a girl know what the situation will be really like with her in-laws without first getting married and living with her in-laws? What if all is well and dandy prior to marriage and completely opposite after marriage? **
**She has a right to ask for separate accomodation - whether or not she’s mentioned it before marriage. **
Is the husband filthy rich? Can he scure a new house that easily? it takes people a lifetime to get a house these days. Does he have enough time to manage his own family life and take care of parents from two different houses?
**First, he does not have to buy a new house. He can rent. She wants separate accomodation and being his wife, she would most likely know what they can and cannot afford. He is obliged to provide for her and his kids within his means, of course. **
**As for having enough time to take care of his parents and two houses simultaneously - well, considering they will reside in the same city, it won’t be too difficult to keep a good eye on parents, visit them often, etc. It’s not like his parents are incapable of surviving without him - or that they are physically dependent and need him every second of the day. If he sees them couple times a week, that can be easily fit into his schedule. **
Some one should knock some sense into this girl.
Aap bismillah karein. :halo:
