"Vis-a-vis some of the comments, i think you guys are being too harsh. Does the article state that every Afghan is criticizing Pakistan? No, of course not. This General Atiqullah Baryalai is most likely a member of the NA; just because his comments have been given greater media exposure does not imply that every Afghan blames Pakistan for the problems falling on their country. "
Your right. On the other hand, does EVERY Indian criticize Pakistan? I would say no. However the general consensus in India much like Afghanistan is against Pakistan. I can pull out interviews where average people talking about mundane issues suddenly heap blame on Pakistan totally out of the blue.
“Being a Pakistani, i was never made to feel any hostility from any Afghan; on the contrary every Afghan i met went out of her/his way to make me feel comfortable.”
Consider yourself extremely lucky. I think that politics was not discussed in your meeting, had it been discussed then the reaction may be different. I have nothing against the Afghans who understand reality.
"This is not to imply that there are not any issues of potential misunderstandings between Afghans and Pakistanis; of course there are. The US utilized the ISI as a conduit for several years, funding money through them, to augment the Mujahideen fighting against the Soviets. Propaganda? No. Fact? Yes. i don’t have the references on me at the moment, but i will post them up later upon request, although i believe that perhaps, by now, this is common knowledge. For the record, for what it is worth, i am not a Pakistani-hating Afghan-lover
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Yes that is all true and no need for evidence required. Lets look back at who started the mess. Afghanistan was the ONLY country and the on;ly Muslim country at that to vote against Pakistan’s entry into the UN. Lets not forget the covert and overt Media support for the Pakhtunistan issue? Lets talk about who poisoned the relationship? Was it Pakistan the newly Independent Muslim nation looking towards Afghanistan as a brother nation or was it Afghanistan ready to chop away our intgral provinces? I let the facts speak for themselves. Lets take it out of the spin zone and see the truth that even during the ISI-Soviet involvement we were taking in refugees when our economy was in no position to do so.
“All i believe is that there are far more subtler complexities than this article betrays; manifestly, there are problems between Afghanistan and Pakistan and between the peoples of that region. i realize i can be wrong about every word i have written above but IMHO these are not problems created in a vacuum however; they have their history in a past filled with betrayals and double crossings.”
Please clarify these “betrayals and double crossings”? It was Afghanistan who picked a fight with us for no reason. Do you think that I or any other patriotic Pakistani will basically agree to Afghanistan claiming Sarhad and walking away with it? No way in hell, will I agree to my country being broken further. If India is such a loved Khair-khhwa of the Afghans, then lets close torkham and other border crossing and have India airlift the food ans medicines that Pakistan has provided thus far.
“Does this mean that Pakistan is responsible for every ill in Afghanistan? Manifestly not. IMHO it also does not imply that every Afghan blames Pakistan for the problems in their country. Perhaps if the peoples in BOTH countries focus more upon what they share rather than past historical grievances (albeit however legitimate), then the future relationships between these two neighbouring countries - that share so much vis-a-vis cultures, religions, languages, traditions, histories, customs - is grounds for some hope.”
Again the general consensus is against Afghanistan. As for what we share with Afghanis is the Pakhtun element and that is the only area where we can work on. I believe that Pakhtuns in Afghanistan need and deserve Pakistans support. As for the other ethnic groups in Afghanistan, why don’t you ask the opnions of the residents of Pekhawar.