If a an educated girl from West is bringing a metric failed paindu .. then how can u expect the marraige to work?
But if an educated girl is bringing an educated guy from a big city of Pakistan then there are 90% chances that marriage will work fine (10% chances for it to fail).
So make where if u are ABCD/TTDD/LMPD whatever then u bring one that can understand the society he is going to and eager or at least capable to learn the norms of it.
agreed....not all guys from pakistan want a 'goonga ghulam' for a wife! some know they want a better life, not a ghissi piti boring life..which is why they would opt for a girl who is well adjusted in the system already...and can jump start a life together smoothly..(goes for both men and women)..