Re: Flirting: Party Etiquette
Dunno bout parties, but I work in a male environment and every jackass considers his birth right to flirt with the only female present.
I treat every person according to what they mean to me.
A who I work close with as he is a TL n I am a Senior, he's been givin me the hints for a while now, I just smile and make fun of the situation but stay in control and let him know I am not interested.
S does sweet things for me but is too scared to admit to his feelings. I pay attention to hids generosity and am friends with him as good friends can be.
C is married but that doesnt stop him from passing weird comments and testing my patience. I give him dumb blonde looks.
F is turk, he thinks n acts like a turk too. I brush him off rudely.
H n A are total idiots they dont deserve any attention from me, I make their job harder on my nights ON.
Unkil T, my desi store guy finds excuses to call me on my phone just to say hello, puts ridiculously yucky hindi songs when I visit his shop. I pretend to not notice.
One just needs to stay focussed on what is desired n not fall prety to insecurites.
If I notice someone who clicks in one look, I am not afraid to make the first move.
Men are a part of our lives, agree or not. They can do stuff we cant, they can get stuff women cant. Its necessary to keep them in our lives but its also important to let them know exactly what position they hold in our eyes.
Calling 'em all dogs and pretending that they dont exist is childish.