Re: Flirting: Party Etiquette
Fraudia,
thanks for the insight, very good analysis. :k:
But there’s one thing that always is the hardest, like Sarah said above, the small talk part where one has to be on the lookout for opportunities to strike in the most effective way and play it as cool as possible.. this area is full of confusions and ppl stumble here more than anywhere else. some hold on to the urges till the 11th hr like you said and end up frustrated and get nthng done, some are too nervous to get anhting done at all, some may be jumpy and spoil the stuff and end up being labelled perverts…
So wehn one is interested and more or less follows the rules of operation you listed but only to discover that the person of interest keeps their self surrounded by bunches or atleast 1 or 2 ‘cousins’ or ‘friends’ ALL the freaking time, at dinner, getting drinks, while socializing, taking part in rituals etc if its a shadi, and leaves no loops to be found alone by the longing eyes…so under such a situation what course of action should be taken to draw the maximum out of the least and still extract opportunities of solo interaction and some small talk and perhaps a few hints or if things are such, get the person out of the crowd and express interest or the need to discuss imp stuff without being under scrutinizing gazes, in some less crowded slightly less noisy corner…?