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You should be thanking me that I ran an ABCD noor clinic for you here!
Thank you ... Really ... I'm super grateful for your generosity 0_0
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Well not sure what to say..congrats on your night..i mean..soon to be wedding day!
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Well not sure what to say..congrats on your night..i mean..soon to be wedding day!
What a strange remark to make.
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My post may have come off sounding more more vehement than I'd meant to be. But seriously, I don't get what your point is. Most people learn about sex while growing up. In North America especially, this knowledge usually extends significantly beyond just the "basics". That does not mean you have to talk the subject to death. As a very good friend once told me: Sex is something you do, and talking about it incessantly is not going to make you any better at it or make it any less awkward.
Yeah which is my point exactly. Why make a big deal about if you're going to get married anyway? What are a few FB messages gonna take away that the wedding night wont?
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Hi Siren :D
I remember you from the other thread, I'm also getting married to a girl like you on 29th Dec. She runs away from lingerie topics :P ... You Pakistani girls are SOOO prude. I see married men over here staring at girls all the time, and I can't blame them.
Anyways. Good luck.
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^. Chal at least..that gives us another perspective siren.
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Who cares about what a girl wears? It all ends up on the floor. 
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to the jahaiz wali almaari..with a huge sheesha on it… floor pe phainkay to chhittar parengay…
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Hi Siren :D
I remember you from the other thread, I'm also getting married to a girl like you on 29th Dec. She runs away from lingerie topics :P ... You Pakistani girls are SOOO prude. I see married men over here staring at girls all the time, and I can't blame them.
Anyways. Good luck.
Us "Pakistani" girls have standards and the courage to stick to our morals and values. I've noticed that people who have grown up outside of Pakistan tend to be more conscious of this. I haven't lived in Pakistan since I was really little, but I don't see why I have to abandon the values my parents have instilled in me. Gawking at random girls "all the time" shows a lack of class as well as self-control, and I don't see how that's furthering your point. I do blame those men; just because there's opportunity does not mean they get to take advantage of it. In fact, most people here are so used to seeing revealing clothing here that they don't really notice it anymore. It's mostly the fobs and paindus who get all excited over it and feel compelled to stare.
You call this prude, I call it shareef.
Good luck to you with your prudish gal. Hope it turns out well for ya.
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Us "Pakistani" girls have standards and the courage to stick to our morals and values. I've noticed that people who have grown up outside of Pakistan tend to be more conscious of this. I haven't lived in Pakistan since I was really little, but I don't see why I have to abandon the values my parents have instilled in me. Gawking at random girls "all the time" shows a lack of class as well as self-control, and I don't see how that's furthering your point. I do blame those men; just because there's opportunity does not mean they get to take advantage of it. In fact, most people here are so used to seeing revealing clothing here that they don't really notice it anymore. It's mostly the fobs and paindus who get all excited over it and feel compelled to stare. You call this prude, I call it shareef.
Good luck to you with your prudish gal. Hope it turns out well for ya.
Oh shoot. "I'm so prissy, better than anybody who grew up in Pakistan." Can you keep please keep us out of this.
The FOB bashing was uncalled for. Guys here haven't lost their libido, they just know how to check out girls discreetly. You should listen to these guys talk about women.
PS: I'm not condoning objectification of women. All I'm saying is that men all over the world do it, it's just that some of them are less obvious about.
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Seriously dude, there's no need to get all up in arms about this. I have not once said that I'm better than people who grew up in Pakistan. I'm simply stating what I've observed. I'm not saying men in the west don't objectify. They definitely do, but at least have the decency to pretend otherwise. I think marriage is a sacred state and respect and understanding (on **both **sides) is crucial for it to work.
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"I've noticed that people who have grown up outside of Pakistan tend to be more conscious of this. (morals, values)"
Oh like this doesn't imply your superiority.
Agree on the marriage being sacred bit, there's no debating that.
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ummm you talk sense..
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Many congrats on your wedding. My advise to you would be not get too much all these yet. Because your expectation grows. You need to be able to communicate one on one and explore together. Wish you best.
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had hoti hai ... if you want to be all shareef and moral values with your husband then why are you getting married?
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"I've noticed that people who have grown up outside of Pakistan tend to be more conscious of this. (morals, values)"
Oh like this doesn't imply your superiority.
Agree on the marriage being sacred bit, there's no debating that.
Believe it or not, it actually doesn't. I'm simply stating what I've observed. Since parents living in the west are always worried about the societal influences, they tend to drill their morals and values into the kids' heads along with detailed explanations as to why. That way their kids have the ability to defend their culture and beliefs to a third party. Parents in Pakistan, however, often feel secure in the belief that their kids are growing up in an "Islamic" environment and therefore focus more on teaching them other things (i.e. how to speak english, do better in school, etc.). There's exceptions, but this is what I've noticed in my own family as well as with people in our social circle. Also, people in the west often question every darn thing since they're "different" from others, whereas in Pakistan, everyone else is doing the same thing so there's no need to explain and/or defend.
I know I'm going totally off topic, but just thought I'd clarify.
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Many congrats on your wedding. My advise to you would be not get too much all these yet. Because your expectation grows. You need to be able to communicate one on one and explore together. Wish you best.
Thanks! :)
had hoti hai ... if you want to be all shareef and moral values with your husband then why are you getting married?
There's no call for being snarky. If you'll recall, we aren't married yet and that makes all the difference in the world.
Anyways, we're on day 6 of communication hiatus and so far it's going pretty well, although he did send me a few texts just to see how I was doing. No more over-the-top flirting yet. I kinda miss it, but its probably for the best :P
had hoti hai ... if you want to be all shareef and moral values with your husband then why are you getting married?
What does this even mean lol
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Morality is not a preinstalled trait.It is evolved,starting with your childhood,teenage,when you grow old and finally die.Parents and your immediate friends and teachers they all shape your sense of morality.
I am eternally thankful to my parents who brought me up well,shaped my mind,gave me a headstart.
@OP
Personally i think the dude is being a little outta his limits but who am i to judge :p .As a member stated before the engine reving and stuff..But i would be more happy in getting tuned for a happy relationship(normal chats & stuff) excluding the lingerie and 18+ content.Does not seem healthy and shows immaturity from both sides.
P.s no offence
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^ none taken. perhaps we are a bit immature. But this sort of relationship is new for both of us so I guess we're acting a bit like crazy teenagers.
You're right about the morality bit, ofcourse. That's exactly what I was getting at in my previous posts.