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*Originally posted by Muslim_Queen: *
However if it really bothers you- go and talk to the friend.I agree with that.Theres no point in putting up with it,if you're so miserable.
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But this point you got right. So shabash and a pat on your back. :D
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*Originally posted by LuxuryItem: *
But this point you got right. So shabash and a pat on your back. :D
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Well ofcourse I was saying that from the start.I just think if you agree to something -and dont like it after a while- go and talk- and work something out.
But if the situation isnt making you that miserable- then put up with it.That is if the roomies parents are staying for a short period of time.
Aejaz I agree with that.
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*Originally posted by Hum Sa Ho To Samne Aaye: *
Where? Local arcade to shoot pool with the Arab lafangas? Plus I'm tired...
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lol that place next to Travelodge?
n I agree with MQ talk to her, or drop her hints? but knowing desis, she probably wotn get em
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*Originally posted by Aejaz: *
It boils down to 2 things,
1st How good is your relationship with your roomie???
2nd How long are her parents going to be there???
1st if its exceptionally good, put up and quit whining, if not worth it, put your foot down.
2nd if its short term put up and quit whining, if not put your foot down.
Either ways think what your roomie would feel if she knew you were lambasting her behind her back???
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1st of all, I have always had good relationships with all of my roomies until now. I try to keep them that way.
2nd they are here for a month, which is a long period of time.
I think I'm allowed to whine all I want or is there a law against that? If you don't want to read this post, then don't. Nobody forced you.
And if she knew I'm writing all this, I seriously could not care less. She knows very well how uncomfortable I am and I have told her that I've told my friends about this situation. However that does not mean I'm demanding her to do something about this situation. In a way, I don't really blame her. We're intl' students with limited resources so I can't make her parents stay elsewhere , where they would've had to pay.
The main problem isn't even her parents staying here. The days will pass eventually. I'm just kind of frustrated with my own "humanitarian" attitude. I really don't know why I keep doing favors for people. Sometimes I wish I could stop but each time something like this comes up, I just can't say no.
And I'm not being nice just because I'm hoping one day she'll be nice to me too. Who even cares. I'm not dependant on anyone and neither do I want favors from others. I just wish..people would stop..using me, without me having to act like a bitch.
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*Originally posted by Hum Sa Ho To Samne Aaye: *
1st of all, I have always had good relationships with all of my roomies until now. I try to keep them that way.
2nd they are here for a month, which is a long period of time.
I think I'm allowed to whine all I want or is there a law against that? If you don't want to read this post, then don't. Nobody forced you.
And if she knew I'm writing all this, I seriously could not care less. She knows very well how uncomfortable I am and I have told her that I've told my friends about this situation. However that does not mean I'm demanding her to do something about this situation. In a way, I don't really blame her. We're intl' students with limited resources so I can't make her parents stay elsewhere , where they would've had to pay.
The main problem isn't even her parents staying here. The days will pass eventually. I'm just kind of frustrated with my own "humanitarian" attitude. I really don't know why I keep doing favors for people. Sometimes I wish I could stop but each time something like this comes up, I just can't say no.
And I'm not being nice just because I'm hoping one day she'll be nice to me too. Who even cares. I'm not dependant on anyone and neither do I want favors from others. I just wish..people would stop..using me, without me having to act like a bitch.
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This time I honestly give up!!!
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*Originally posted by Hum Sa Ho To Samne Aaye: *
And I'm not being nice just because I'm hoping one day she'll be nice to me too. Who even cares. I'm not dependant on anyone and neither do I want favors from others. I just wish..people would stop..using me, without me having to act like a bitch.
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You are stronger than you think. And people would accept that too. Tell your inconsiderate roomate how you feel. Hell with her.
Look. She knows how I feel. I guess her parents don't. And if they can't figure out why I'm always shut in my room despite the heat, then I can't hang a poster outside my room saying that "THIS SUX". Then people wonder why I don't like desi parents.
And Aejaz what's wrong with you? Don't try to over-analyze everything.
I'm just seriously pissed off at myself and no one else.
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*Originally posted by Hum Sa Ho To Samne Aaye: *
And Aejaz what's wrong with you? Don't try to over-analyze everything.
I'm just seriously pissed off at myself and no one else.
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On a serious note,
Am I over analyzing, or are you over reacting.
we all agreed you did a good deed, now that you have second thoughts, whining is not going to solve your problem (Is It).
And if only you could stop being pissed at your self for being a good humanitrain, I am sure you will feel much better.
regards,
Aejaz.
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*Originally posted by Aejaz: *
And if only you could stop being pissed at your self for being a good humanitrain, I am sure you will feel much better.
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Being a humanitarian sucks. I'd rather someone cook me dinner.
Aejaz this is a pure whining thread. Did you seriously think I opened this thread to get a solution from the oh-so-bright-and-helpful guppys?
Yes being a humanitarian sucks at times but I don’t know how to be anything else. Must be the damned genes.
And to think my mom calls me “kam-neeyat” 
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*Originally posted by Hum Sa Ho To Samne Aaye: *
Aejaz this is a pure whining thread. Did you seriously think I opened this thread to get a solution from the oh-so-bright-and-helpful guppys?
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Aejaz, you see what you have done!
Bismillah
Whine away now.:D
^ Maybe after week 2 :D
Looking at your other posts on various threads I (Wrongly) assumed it was a serious issue, specially after you brought up the original roommate thread!!!
Hell I am just a simple person and take people at face value, (and fall flat on my face, like right now).
Thanks for bringing me back to my senses. Thats the last you will hear from me.
the oh-not-so-bright-and-helpful-guppy!!!
regards,
Aejaz
Aww. But if you had gone through the first thread, I had mentioned that "don't be surprised if I end up whining on gup now and then".
If this were a serious issue, I would've said "Any suggestions please?".
And please, try not taking things at their face valve. Face value would be a better alternative.
Hehehe
Dang! You corrected the spelling mistake. Now you can't be not-so-bright anymore.
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*Originally posted by Hum Sa Ho To Samne Aaye: *
Dang! You corrected the spelling mistake. Now you can't be not-so-bright anymore.
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I wish we had that oh so bright person here right now.humsa maybe she could help where the rest of us failed.
^ Who? When did I miss that :P
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*Originally posted by Hum Sa Ho To Samne Aaye: *
I just wish..people would stop..using me, without me having to act like a bitch.
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Beautifully said. I used to be nice. Now I am a bitch.
stop bitching :p
itni museebat thee , atu u shudv told ur friend uw erent okay with her parents coming over! get another place!
^ Abay chup!