I live in a 2-bed apartment and my flatmate has gone to India for a month and will be back in 20 days- with her PARENTS!!! They’ll be staying here for a MONTH!! I guess they’ll stay in the living area but this SUCKS. I’m so pissed off. I just have my job and one course this summer which means I dont have to spend alot of time outside. What should I do? Her parents are pretty conservative too. Oh this whole situation is making me angry now. She told me over msn about this arrangement.
Since I can’t tell her to keep her parents out - give me some ideas how to deal with it.
get another job? :-S
come to toronto! :D
Be serious
Maybe I’ll look for another job but i’ll have to come back to my apartment eventually!
Plus they are brahmin so I prolly can’t even cook meat while they’re around ![]()
hmmm thats a sticky situation... maybe just wait till they come down
an uncle of mien came to see us after 7 years and we'd heard he'd become really religious so my sis and i were freaking out big time.. like tied our hair back, i walked around all covered.. but he was totally cool. Talking to us and all
does ur friend eat meat?
Tch tch you are such a bad maizbaan. Mehmaan tou Allah ki rehmat hote haiN. :-P
Don't panic just yet, maybe it won't be as bad as you think. I'm sure they won't be sitting in the apartment all day long either, they'll want to do some exploring and site-seeing so cook when they ain't there! Just ask ur flatmate in advance if they'll have problems with you cooking meat. Other than that, if it is that bad, lock urself in ur room and sing more songs for us :-D Or find an activity on campus or outside, like swimming or gym or painting/drawing etc. Good luck.
sadzz my friend does - as long as her parents are'nt around. No the thing is, I'll prolly have to leave my door closed all the time while they'll be here. And I probably won't be able to invite guests over either cuz the place is gonna be cramped. I'm gonna have a great summer! Working and hiding!!!!
tsk yeah i know what u mean.. like u have to change ur entire schedule hehe
can u go for a lil break somewhere? i think sehar is rigth now, they'll prob spend most of their time out and about... who wants to be stuck indoors for a whole month?
Bhayee.. jabb flat-mates ke saath reh ke paisay bachayein gay tau phir ye sabb tau ho ga. Pehlay sochna thaa. Ab pareshaan honay ki kiya zaroorat hai.
Oh thanks for the advice guys but did I mention I'm broke so not much fun outside when you don't have the finances!
Anyway, I think i'll start volunteering at this organization for stray cats. At least the furry creatures will cheer me up :(
And I'm not a bad maizbaan, i'm just a lil kid who needs some summer fun.
Oh yea Faisal, unlike you i'm not an auditor yet. Jab ban jaoongi to ayaashi keroongi.
And anyway, how was i supposed to know Mr. and Mrs. Chakravorty will come and stay with us in the summer heat from Calcutta in 2004 when I signed the lease in 2003?
awww hey maybe u can spend like ur day or free time at another friends place? hmm?
Other friends? Unlike me, most are hitched and will be heading off to greener pastures. The ones that are single will either try to hit on me (guys) or ask me to hook them up with someone else (girls).
^
my life… except i only have two friends
Cats are so much better than people..
i know... :( i need a pet i think
Did i mention that I couldn't keep a cat cuz my flatmate can't stand animals?? UGH!
no u didnt tell me... but that totally sucks!
And why are you bound to her again? Can't you just move out or get a new roomate?
^ I'm on a lease plus I dont want to move out for a couple of months only. What a drag.
U have every single right to cook meat or whatever u would
like to eat. If they have a problem with you eating/cooking
meat then your flatmate should have thought about that
herself. It is her resposibility not yours.
It's true that u might be bound to your room if u like privacy
but u do have equal rights to spend time in the living room.
good luck sweety. Can't offer much advice. Bus ek mahina hi tau hai.
Guzar jaye ga.
Yeah I’m gonna live the way I do but won’t be disrespectful. I’m gonna tell her tho before she comes here that she’s STUPID to bring her parents over in this heat. Plus I live in a cow town. Alot of fun they’re gonna have! ![]()