Re: Flashback & Fast forward !!!
If your actions have hurt someone’s reputation and life than you cannot be considered a friend or a well wisher, it I very common there to blame the entire society rather than self evaluation In a society where it is frowned up for man and woman to hang and certain males trying their darndest to score companionship of a female. It seems very shady for you to use this excuse to spend loads of emotional time with your dying friends sister and causing her badnaami, the price of which she is still paying. You used the word emotional dependence that only results from extreme emotional intimacy and is very unhealthy. I am not even emotionally dependent on my own wife and also my children aren’t emotionally dependent on us. When it is friends, sisters, mothers and wives we ought to scrutinize our actions to ensure that we are not going to cause disrepute.
She has thrived in a marriage where husband is mentally handicapped Fil physically abused her and death of her young brother She became financially successful despite that, so what makes you think she is in need of your guidance.