First wife's permission

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Re: First wife’s permission

@Enigmatic

Theorist is right, he needs to inform her first wife first. Then it’s up to the wife that if she isn’t in favor of this or doesn’t want to remain married to the person because of that very reason she can choose to leave him or ask for divorce. Polygamy is permitted in Islam but comes with some very important rules the most important one being able to bring complete justice and equal treatment to all his wives. Which of course is rarely possible. Most of us choose to forego these rules and argue over why polygamy is allowed in Islam. It’s unfair to the woman. I think it isn’t. For one if one’s husband truly loves her and is happy with her, he wouldn’t go marry someone else. Because marrying someone comes with a lifetime of financial, phsyical and emotional responsibilities, committment and fair treatment. This is a much more difficult route to follow as compared to staying in a monogamous loveless marriage and having extramarital affairs and mistresses. It makes so much sense to me. Although maybe a year or two back I used to think this Islamic ruling was pure injustice and cruel

I agree totally. People this day n age focus more on the fact that we re allowed to marry 4 times but they always intentionally neglect the rules and duties .. I.e. the consequences. When neglecting ..that’s when its too late..that ok for the time being you were in love n everything.. but having more than one wife..just becomes a burden cos the era we live in moves at light speed and we have more duties and less time…and at the end your life collapses.