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Imp. point ,
Point to be noted ,
Do specail care if ur not in ur home ,
Like u r there in som hotel ,
May be it PC , holiday Inn , but u need to care of tht stuff .......
their used to hiden cameras to ecord tht night .....whn peopel used to be really in excited state ...
Don t really bother of the electronic devices ....
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^ well put, mehnaz.
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Well girls, spending all damn day in that heavy dress and didn't even get a chance to eat properly would make them tired....instead of listening to hubby dubby prefer rather jump right in and get over with it (:p )
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how am I suppose to know...im not married yet :D :p
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First going off for bungee jumpin then going on an airballoon and then a romantic candel light dinner near the ocean would be a perfect first wedding night :)
I want to do all that while ......
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i think i found maself a match here 
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Hey people, family forum … keep yourselves under control please. 
Dada Abaa, you are going to have to control yourself if you are in an arranged marriage. I think it would be extremely awkward for both people and it would probably be the first time being alone with anybody in such a setting. Take your time is all I’m saying.
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Mehnaz,
Its not just one-sided reaction, it has to be from both sides, and if they agree for not doing it, then it simply shows a respect and understanding among them.
But majority of human (or not human) do not believe in respecting the emotions and liking of a girl or a guy. Mostly just go wild feeling like there is nothing to do than that.
Those were only ideal cases that you were talking about, while I was talking about the general people. In my case, I have a self-control, for me it is more important to respect her feelings than anything else.
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talk, try 2 make her feel comfortable. Offer her something 2 eat or drink. Dont 4get 2 give her a nice present and many compliments :queen:
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, :k:
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SweetDreamz, MM 
first night is not about sex or kindergarten stuff. Its about starting a new life.. a night of promises, a night of trust (let her know u don’t care about her/his past), a night of love bond / spark that wold lasts forever and ofcourse a night of romance.
Hold her hand, shut your mouth… open your heart and mutter I LOVE YOU. Being on bed with your wife is no different to be with a slut unless their is love, care and respect.
Her body is yours try to feel her soul.
p.s. make her come first!! Guys get too excited at first night so don’t expect much.
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If you dont do it the first night shes gonna think you are not interested and shes gonna go tell her amma, dadi, nani, bhanji, cousins, friends and kaam wali that you havent even touched her yet! She might also think you are gay.
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every girl is different...not all girls would do that
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It's soooo obvious that not one of you is married, especially the guys. All you little boys sound like overexcited fobby puppies. (Except Mehnaz, who gave good advice :)
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^ So you are not an aunty? 
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the last thing guys wanna here is an accusation of being a NA MARD 
i willl beat the hell out of her for commiting the greatest sin.
Danial: u are sooo unromantnic 
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when did they say its about sex or sumthing, y r u smacking urself 
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WTH, my virgin eyes.
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^^ Am i allowed to pratice it prior to THE REAL TEST.
Dope: exactly! :k: