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Finally truth from a woman 
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when will this night end:yawn:
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Soomro, I'm entertainment writer for an asian newspaper
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lol, arranged marriage wedding night must be so awkward.
i'm sure the guy won't care, but for the girl....having awkward sex with a strange man....probably the worst sex one can have.
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My colleague used to always get sick on the first night with her ex-boyfriends. It happened to her like 4-5 times she told me.
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Bollywood_diva: You are a brave girl. Its his loss.
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Welcome to the real world!
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Thank you Chandler Bing, that's very kind of you. I have many people who tell me I'm brave and that I did the right thing...and then there is the aunty's...I walk into a room full of them, they go silent, nudge each other and say "That's ____'s daughter...the one who got a divorce!" LOL
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Girls have always married extremely young in my family and I knew I would be no exception so I was around 14-15 when I began to panic about what was going to happen. Marriage, for girls, in my family has always been a taboo, you can't discuss it at all and those who do are branded "shameless" so I never was able to tell anyone that I didn't like him and didn't want to go ahead with the marriage, and they all just assumed I was happy! The only time I was really asked was on the day of the nikaah and at that point EVERYTHING was ready - the guests had arrived, date set, etc so I went ahead with it hoping for the best.
Getting a divorce was like drawing blood from a stone. My family (incase you haven't already clicked on) are very very very very backward and stuck in their ways. As one aunty put it to me as I was getting a divorce - "no one has had a divorce in this family for over a century" and the last one they do remember (some great great great great uncle) was instigated by the man. However, last year, after 3 years of hell I finally got the divorce!
The experience has really made me stronger as a person and I have no regrets :)
goood for u girl......
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Sara, you're right - it's tough being a woman!
well thanks for clarifying that diva..I would never have known...lol.
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k me ready for u - wake me up when u r ready
look if you are outside Pakistan..you must've experienced that first night already..hey so whats the big deal..huh?..lol
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yaaaaar.....aik baar shaadi hone do.....phir dekhna kitni jaldi sab gs member ko mein maamoon aor khaala banaata hoon ;)
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tru, doesnt just go for the guys but also for the gals, shame for me to say it but it is true...what if one of the two is well-experienced and the other one hasn't even kissed anyone yet...lol...tauba tauba....i'm the shareef 1 :)
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^ I think this thread has gone FAR ENOUGH! and has turned into a discussion thats getting facts out of thin air.
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Its open for new First Nighters, learn from it, itsme.
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Oh puh-leeeaaase :hinna: DO NOT generalize or stereotype people living outside of Pakistan!!! 
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hahahaha. can someone make this a sticky please. desidude and afridi. You are poster children for why we (we in the morally uncorrupt and somewhat more educated west) dislike “freshies”. Freshies and FOBs, both of whom are too horny for their own good. Fact is, you are jelous, cause if we in the west wanted to we could **** around, so you assume we do, because you in our positions would, infact everyone you know inour position would. Shame shame, doesnt say alot about your immediate happenings does it. How currupt of you.
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Yes that is why i hate it when two people have never met....hummm...but then that rarely happens.... okay...i think typical movie scenes rarely happen...just use your head...