Re: First Night.
Jo chahooo soch ker jaoo.....yaad ker k jaooo...liken first night dulhan ko daikhoo gai na (of course alone in the room) sub bhool jana hai ... hosh urh janey hain beta jee...... be your self .... girls like guys who are talking themselves (kisee aur kee zuban nahi boltey)..... speak...talk to her ....make her feel easy....give her feeling of security...make her feel she is not a sex doll that you bought from market or something ....make her feel her importance in your life...things will automatically come your way ..there is no hard-n-fast rule of DO or DONT on the first night....... :)
PS: this is all applicable if marriage is arranged, but if its love marriage then you know what to do better than anyone else