Re: First Night.
first night would be the weirdest night if the bride and groom dont know each other....in this sort of case....they should just talk to each other....and respect each other's feelings (dont drag the gal into having SEX) cuz without feelings, it would be just ordinary sex not 'making love" so i say wait until u think u're ready to *make love *otherwise, that first night has no special meaning kiyun k it's supposed to be armaano se bharpoor raat (this is what makes it a special night) and if there r no feelings, then there r no armaan, and there shouldnt be no such activity until and unless both parties reach the comfort level. I personally know a gal who had an arranged marriage...it took her 5 months to even get used to of sleeping at the same bed as her husband's but the husband gave her her room and time to settle down and he was wise enough to respect her decision of not having it until she was absolutely ok with it.