Re: First night of marriage - MEN ANSWER.
Boss, just take some pointers from B'wood. Finely grind up some sleeping pills and mix em up real good in the glass of warm doodh.... that you'll sharmaa'ingly serve your scantily clad, unblushing bride.
Re: First night of marriage - MEN ANSWER.
first of all theboss is a 16 year old grl imagining her wedding night and still believes in sweet romantic innocent men that want to get to KNOW the love of their life that is scantily clad at the moment...is this some twisted fantasy in your head? i suggest if ur not getting married in the next two years....continue to have minor crushes on boys, a boyfrnd here or there and by the time ur ready to get married to the love of ur life u can tell him...u'll walk out with nothing after he removes ur dupatta and u want him to turn u down so u guys could get to know each other in the next three days and then do it.
Re: First night of marriage - MEN ANSWER.
OP: It is completely ok to not wanting to jump into it the first night. I completely agree with you that despite the fact that some people will be really close to you emotionally and mentally, it does take a while to get close physically. In fact, personally, I think waiting and establishing closeness physically over time gradually probably is more meaningful and romantic anyway.
HOWEVER, you do have to communicate this to the 'love of your life' the night of or even prior. Your wife would definitely take it personally and feel that there mustve been smtng she did wrong. Please don't put her through that b/c she will prob be ten times more nervous than yourself.