Many moons ago I and this girl had feeling for each other. Even since we were not even in our teens.
It grew over the time(years and years) we like became part of each other.
I was going through a phase were I started strange movies(documentaries) read strange literature. Read abnormal psychology. Stop believing in basics.
At that time I stopped paying attention to her. Chasing after another girl (for a while). IT hurt her badly. I could see her pain. But I did it.
One dude(my relative) alway liked her. He was one cheap SOB. He was %100 characterless person. He had done things with girls which I cant even state here.
And with the kind of girls who , again, I cant mention here.
Dude was so shameless he had seen us being close and stuff still he kept chasing after her.
That dude and her mom played tricks on me I as a result said I give up on her. They got their proposal accepted from that girls family.
Right about than I had realized what I had done. I was miserable so was that girl. We being kids didn’t know what to do. I am glad I wasn’t there to go to her wedding.
Why am I telling you all that.
I recently found out that, that SOB dude has gone back to his old ways.
Cheating on her with 1-2 girls. He lives in a different city for business so its easy.
All family knows that. They have one kid together. Girl don’t complain(thats how she is) but she is very sad.
Now I feel like killing that dude. For treating her like the way he did.
Many moons ago I and this girl had feeling for each other. Even since we were not even in our teens.
It grew over the time(years and years) we like became part of each other.
I was going through a phase were I started strange movies(documentaries) read strange literature. Read abnormal psychology. Stop believing in basics.
At that time I stopped paying attention to her. Chasing after another girl (for a while). IT hurt her badly. I could see her pain. But I did it.
One dude(my relative) alway liked her. He was one cheap SOB. He was %100 characterless person. He had done things with girls which I cant even state here.
And with the kind of girls who , again, I cant mention here.
Dude was so shameless he had seen us being close and stuff still he kept chasing after her.
That dude and her mom played tricks on me I as a result said I give up on her. They got their proposal accepted from that girls family.
Right about than I had realized what I had done. I was miserable so was that girl. We being kids didn't know what to do. I am glad I wasn't there to go to her wedding.
Why am I telling you all that.
I recently found out that, that SOB dude has gone back to his old ways.
Cheating on her with 1-2 girls. He lives in a different city for business so its easy.
All family knows that. They have one kid together. Girl don't complain(thats how she is) but she is very sad.
Now I feel like killing that dude. For treating her like the way he did.
Aww that's sad :( Stay out of it though.. I know you're concerned for her, but really poking your nose in their business is gonna do nothing for you buddy.
Aww that's sad :( Stay out of it though.. I know you're concerned for her, but really poking your nose in their business is gonna do nothing for you buddy.
hmmmm
yeah thats what I should do. Good suggestion other wise If was going to cal her.
That would have bn real bad.
Awww.... poor u.. i m sure you are feelin pretty bad rite now and more than that, rethinking what wud have happened if instead you had not given up and got married to her right?
Awww.... poor u.. i m sure you are feelin pretty bad rite now and more than that, rethinking what wud have happened if instead you had not given up and got married to her right?
I don't know I hated him. But I made my peace with what was going on.
But now its all coming back. I am going to kick his A$$ , al I have to do find a dummy issue. lol
the whole family knows about how he is? and yet no one try to talk to him about his behaviour, and how it cant work like this anymore?
every one was almost sad for her, only happy family was guys family when they got married.
Now I don't know if some one could stop him from being an A-h
Here's the thing- her husband knew you two used to have feelings for each other so any bad move on your part, and he might just ruin her life more. If you try to do anything, it's going to make him think that you're doing it for her and he seems like the kind of person who would even think his wife still harbors feelings for you and stays in touch with you. You never know how he might express his anger, he'll leave her or abuse her or even do more bad things intentionally to hurt her. That's why you should not get involved directly at all because whatever you do, she will have to bear the brunt of it. If you know someone in their families, talk to them, see if they can help you in this.
Here's the thing- her husband knew you two used to have feelings for each other so any bad move on your part, and he might just ruin her life more. If you try to do anything, it's going to make him think that you're doing it for her and he seems like the kind of person who would even think his wife still harbors feelings for you and stays in touch with you. You never know how he might express his anger, he'll leave her or abuse her or even do more bad things intentionally to hurt her. That's why you should not get involved directly at all because whatever you do, she will have to bear the brunt of it. If you know someone in their families, talk to them, see if they can help you in this.
I mean If you steal a girl from some one, by playing dirt tricks, and make her into trophy wife won't you expect so ?
yeah you and ria are right I shoudn't do any thing
Feel sorry for the girl