saraali
January 22, 2012, 12:23pm
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Re: First he flirts and now all of a sudden ignores me.
Usually in such time pass (for fun’s sake) relationships, sincerity & committment is least expected from both sides, unless one is too innocent to know what flirting actually means. As such affairs (games) are just for the purpose of fun, both men and women try to utilize their own strengths and not let their weaknesses be exploited by the other person. Usually, the more experienced one wins. A woman’s strength is that she is not as desperate (as a man is) in getting invoved into a relationship by merely getting influenced by looks, without having enough information about the other person. But once she gets involved, her weakness starts, i.e. she can’t easily come out of it. Here the strength of men starts, the sick men then play with her emotions in order to see how desperate she has become without his attention, while she is already trapped.
Additionally, he is very senior (powerful) in the company that you work, so he has also utilized this strength of his, against which you can’t do anything. Now that he has already exploited your weaknesses, better not to give him attention at all, if you want to punish him and move on with life. Just consider it as a learning experience that should motivate you to concentrate more and work harder. Prove your worth through your efforts (only that should do the talking in your office). Difficult, but you have to understand that such a low person isn’t worth of your attention and time, but your work is.
Before this episode I thought he was a gentleman I now know he is just a jerk.. Middle aged prat. My only concern is my project tht I have given near to one dedicated year.