First he flirts and now all of a sudden ignores me.

[saraali]

Re: First he flirts and now all of a sudden ignores me.

@R.A.W

May be he doesn’t like aims/goals that are easily trapped, sorry achieved. He might be looking for some challenge in life, just like some people do at work. Next time become a challenge for people. Don’t let them easily ‘use’ you, show interest only when the intent of ‘marriage’ is clear. Your emotions, time, attention and feelings are not that cheap and low valued that anyone might easily get a share of it without any seriousness for a long term relationship. Better to get parents/siblings involved next time when you consider anyone for marriage. You are lucky that he left you at a very early stage and hence didn’t give you as much pain as he could easily have (compared to the present situation).

At the fear of being scandalous.. I had no intention of getting married to someone I barely know.. ..i.e him… The thought hadn’t crossed my mind.. It’s irritating me how desperately he wanted me to know his feelings, when I did he went AWOL. Y can’t he just b a grownup accept it was a bit of fun n not let it affect work (my project) .