First fight

Lifestyle Relationships
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Inspired by the first gift thread.

Do you remember what your first fight with your SO was about? The first ones (if not huge) are always cute.

I need to think about mine.

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Maybe its just me but I don't think ANY fights are cute...ever.

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Our first fights were never cute…coz there were so many complications and misunderstandings…but I swear I can’t remember the first fight :nahi:

but the fights after the first initial stage…they were and still are funny after I stop simmering :@:

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We went to a dawaat...
His friends came there too and one of them me how I was doing and I said I was doing alright.. he got angry, got up and went and sat next to another girl. Whom I later found out he was texting with all day. The girl didnt know he was engaged with me and started crying because she had feelings for him. I confronted him after the dawaat and he said he did that because I talked 2 his friend. I said he was texting her all day too and tht showed that he was looking for an excuse to get mad at me and sit with her. I was reallyyy angry. He said I was making baat ka batangar or w.e and I said he was too about me just replying his friends questions
NOt funny at all thoughh!!!!

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^OMG!!! That was so lame of him!!!!

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Control freak. Unless he's changed himself, this is a taste of married life.

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yaaa.. i know!!! I was sooo surprised!

yes, he's changed now... no more drama.. :) and a few fights every once in a while. but kin logoon mein jhagra nahi hota..

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Hmm, I get what you mean.

In retrospect though, the idea of back when you were totally in love (read: crazily infatuated) and you fought, sounds cute. Now, if only I can remember my first fight!!

I remember the first time I yelled at him was year and a half into our relationship. I remember where that happened, but not why :(.

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our first fight was when i wanted too be out of the relationship as i was afraid that we might not get married:naak: so i wanted to get it over but he couldnt let me go like that and wanted every thing to be normal and i agreed too that its no turning back. now its been 6 years weve got married :):)

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you as an opponent?? I would say to too :omg:

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good to hear abt the 6 yrs into marriage…:k:

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to be honest - cant remember :)

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:k:

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:k:

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It depends on what kind of a fight it is. Mine were pretty serious in the beginning, since it was arranged. We aren't married yet, but in the initial stages when we were getting to know each other, both of us were very protective of our viewpoints, so we got edgy really fast. It even got to a point where I considered breaking up altogether! Alhumdulillah things have changed now, those were only the first few months. It has now been a year and two months (wishing us an infinite amounts of years together InshAllah, haha :P) and we tend to fight, but it's over very small things. And they're pretty cute fights, lol! Things like what color scheme the engagement should be. What he should wear or what I should wear.

BUT, sometimes there are some big fights. For example, he tends to get over possessive, which is a trait in him that I've come to accept. He tells me himself that he is trying to get over it. He doesn't go crazy or anything, but he does tell me certain things bother him. He wouldn't care if a guy looked at me or anything, he would only care if I gave the guy attention back. Which I would never do. But there was this one incident, where I was at the bus stop at uni and a guy came to talk to me. The guy was really flirty and ended up asking me out later on in the conversation. He went to the same uni, that's the only reason I talked back. I did initially think he was interested in me, but I wasn't sure of his intentions, I thought he was being innocently friendly. Anyway, my fiance and I have an open book policy, we have to tell each other everything. So I ended up telling him and when he found out he got a little serious about it. He never yells, but he let it known that he was angry. His point was that, why would I keep talking to him if I knew he was interested in me. He thought I was leading the guy on. Which is correct, but I resolved it by telling him that I wasn't sure at the beginning and didn't want to be rude. However when he got overly flirtatious I tried ending the conversation and once he asked me to go to the pub (he was a Pakistani guy, dont' know what he does at a pub!) I declined and left the indoor bussing area to wait outside. My fiance understood the situation, but he still gets a little weirded out by these things. I guess this kind of stuff happens with guys a lot though..

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I wrote this story before. I was wearing high heels and couldn’t walk fast and he got annoyed and started walking ahead leaving me way behind, I spent whole day crying and night in arguing. :naak:

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Did he apologise at the end?

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there's something very odd about recording when your "first fight" was. it's like you're waiting for it to happen.

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I was sitting quietly in my room, doing zikr o ibadat. She came from nowhere and started fighting me with for no reason.

Yup, That’s my story and I’m sticking to it :mad:

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^:omg: