Finding a spouse/rishta

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Re: Finding a spouse/rishta

@sooraj-mukhi

So what happens to people like us? The girls who are educated, from a decent middle class family, know respect and culture, carry our selves nicely but are not * text book desi beauty* … some of us are approaching the dangerous age zone of 25 plus and while i did not make that time line critical it seems that most larkay walay are looking for girls under that age.
So what options do we have? How do we not become a source of tension for our parents? Do we keep parading ourselves in rishta showings or have our pictures sent all over the world for prospect matches? Do we take the risk of opening our heart to a fellow class mate or colleague in the hopes that he would approach the topic of marriage to us?
Suggestions friends- both from girls and guys please.

Leave it upto Allah (s.w.t). He indeed knows the best time and weather for when and how we r to get married.