Spiral
February 27, 2010, 11:30pm
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^ some women do not need a “set budget” and already have enough akal and conscious not to go overboard with the spending.
If their husbands (like iconoclast) are willing to give them “khula kharcha” and do not care how much they spend via credit card and debit card… that obviously means that he has no complaints and does not care where she spends her money. So why the need for an “allowance” then?
Women like the OP should definietly have an allowance because that is better than nothing. But women that already have the khula karcha (ak… credit cards..debit cards) don’t need to downgrade to an allowance.
And yes - i find it as a downgrade…The allowance thing is weird to me… i mean.. whatever happened to “whats mine is yours” in a marriage? And trust? I associate allowances with little kids who are given it to spend on whatever they would like but also threatened that it can be suspended or taken away if they misbehave.
agree! I can’t imagine being restriced to only a certain amount. I am not an over spender but I would hate it If I was giving a certain amount versus oh yeh lo.. mehenay ka quota pura..