Re: Finances
You are disturbing!..
It should not be a MUST that girls should work to support the family financially. It should be voluntarily than forcing her to bring an income or share her money. That’s an extra responsibility. Her duties include to make a wonderful home and good upbringing of the kids while husband is bringing food to the table. If both partners work, are you suggesting sending them to day care? Anyway, I think men who are incapable of supporting his wife should not get married. Why would we working girls need to get married if we’d have to double our responsibilities? Work, cook, clean, take care of the kids.. When do we get time for ourselves to relax and be a woman?.. I’d prefer women to work so they are ready for unexpected situations. Who leaves the house if things go sour? It is the woman who leaves his house.
Why do we get married at the first place? The reasons are security, protection, love, and family
No khudar husband would mistreat his wife’s income and I have seen it everywhere.
The other scenario is if he really needs it then she should contribute otherwise she shouldn’t be forced!