how do u normally react when fighting with ur bf/betterhalf/husband? if hes stubborn and calm but ur more hyper and likely to lose ur temper often, how do u deal with it? how do u normally makeup after fights?
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Hmm.. I tend to lose my temper way more than he does. He is very, very calm and that just pisses me off so much especially when I expect him to answer back and all I get is.. okay.. sorry-- I mean grr. Then after I am done yelling and being all mean and venting out, he tells me he's NOW mad at me and then gets a subtle attitude. It's really annoying! But he's right alot of times- I do lose my temper at silly things and I need to control that......
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if i fight with my girlfriend and she does not obey me i SLAP HER in the FACE with BOTH OF THE HANDS on each cheek at SAME TIME hahahahahhahaha stupid woman.
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^lol.. you have a gf? are we gonna see another post soon about how shes all fat now because she dumped you?
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we just go through a roller coaster of high volume and low volume arguments…finally cool off and then take hours to exchange sorries…
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i wonder why would one ever fight with their loved ones. Though its a part and parcel of our lives... Well. The making ups should be quick. The one on fault should admit and makeup. It goes for both.
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i keep silent -
but then i can talk ,shout as well 
depends
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how do u normally react when fighting with ur bf/betterhalf/husband? if hes stubborn and calm but ur more hyper and likely to lose ur temper often, how do u deal with it? how do u normally makeup after fights?
i am the stubborn one and i lose my temper more often as compare to Mr. Sexy. :( I usually pick the fights with him and i rarely apologize/manana for what i do to him... but i do realize afterwards (well day or two) that i was wrong... so anyways, he is usually the one making up after the fights. A few of his makeup classics are: changing kiddies diapers, a cup of hot cocoa/coffee, a rose flower(my weakness), anda paratha, or sometimes it's only his smile that makes my heart melt and we just forget about our fight and laugh like crazy old buddies again.
As for me, i usually makeup with a sorry etc.
In the end, no matter how we fight or how much we fight our hearts know that we love, respect, and value each other. Fights are just the fuels we need to energize our lives and relationship.
Oh and we don't stretch our fight too long. The whole fight and the manana process takes anywhere between 30 minutes to an hour and a half.
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it happens.
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shay you sound exactly like me …ugh i am so sensitive and get emotional a bit too quickly and ofcourse i start losing my temper too often and then when i’m done he in turn gets mad at me getting mad and then its a circle of uselessness 
but you know what makes it worse is when i’m mad and all he does it crack jokes 
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Makeup ... Makeout ... Makeup ... Makeout ... Makeup ... Makeout ...
... ummm ... these terms can be used interchangeably ...
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if i fight with my girlfriend and she does not obey me i SLAP HER in the FACE with BOTH OF THE HANDS on each cheek at SAME TIME hahahahahhahaha stupid woman.
^That's the funniest crap I've heard in a long time.
Anyway, our fights are the same, she screams and gets dramatic, I stay calm which pisses her off more. You see, us men have this crazy thing about arguments, we argue with reason, women, not so much. ducks
Usually I stay aloof for quite a bit longer after the fight, Steph says that I hold a grudge, and I tell her that it takes me time to climb back down from the fight, even though I don't yell and scream, I'm not immediately lovey dovey even after the fight is over.
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^ My husband and I are exactly the same way during and after a fight. If i think its my fault, i will say sorry within a few hours. He likes to brood over things and comes back the next day when he is more calm and has time to think about the matter. It used to drive me crazy in the begining but now i am used to it. He says i am very jald baaz in this matter.
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aahmed, what's "a bit longer"? hours? a day? days??
ira, mine's a big time brooder/sulker too, and he sometimes takes 3 days before he's back to normal! as for me, i explode, get it out of my system, and am back to normal almost immediately... so it's hard for me to understand why he needs so long to get back on track. methinks it's quite unhealthy to brood. at first the brooding used to drive me crazy... but now i just go hang out with my friends or do other stuff while he's sulking. i have noticed that if i hang around at home, miserable, or if i call him often, he takes longer to recover... and if i'm out having fun, he stops sulking sooner. i wonder why?!!
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aahmed, what's "a bit longer"? hours? a day? days?? ira, mine's a big time brooder/sulker too, and he sometimes takes 3 days before he's back to normal! as for me, i explode, get it out of my system, and am back to normal almost immediately... so it's hard for me to understand why he needs so long to get back on track. methinks it's quite unhealthy to brood. at first the brooding used to drive me crazy... but now i just go hang out with my friends or do other stuff while he's sulking. i have noticed that if i hang around at home, miserable, or if i call him often, he takes longer to recover... and if i'm out having fun, he stops sulking sooner. i wonder why?!!
wow Namkeen it's like you're reciting my life here. For me, his sulking/moodiness was so hard to handle before and even now sometimes. Emotionally I used to get so down and depressed because there was nothing I could do in order to change the situation.
Now like you, i've learned to distract myself and to do other things/activities with friends/family just so I can get my mind off of it so I don't make myself miserable. Compromising and adjusting are key I think.
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it happens..and happens!
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^That's the funniest crap I've heard in a long time.
Anyway, our fights are the same, she screams and gets dramatic, I stay calm which pisses her off more. You see, us men have this crazy thing about arguments, we argue with reason, women, not so much. ducks
** Usually I stay aloof for quite a bit longer after the fight, Steph says that I hold a grudge, and I tell her that it takes me time to climb back down from the fight, even though I don't yell and scream, I'm not immediately lovey dovey even after the fight is over**.
being a woman, I tend to be very logical and reasonable when arguing but it's not always the case with men:p. And I don't know which person can be all lovey dovey after a fight...it's just not possible, be on talking terms first then after a while it might be possible.
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^^Yea for logical reasonable women!!! :)