Fighting between couples

How do you cope with the fight? When I turn away or he steps out of the room. Read Ayat ul Kursi. It does wonders & then those three times I was the one who went back to him thinking shaitan is behind all this so lets finish it. Of course I never tell him about the whole thinking who is behind this fight :@:

Who starts it? Both have been the culprits.
who ends? I do.
does one apologize? Both do.

Normal fight is when you have a disagreement over something minor. We rarely have those. MashaAllah! They are kind of essential for a healthy relationship though.

Major fight is when either one leaves the room. Somebody has got issues then.