uhh. When they are married, they are married. The excuse that they were in love before is just lame, and probably used because they are bored in their current marriage. If it mattered enough, they would have done something about it before getting married. But if they chose to not do anything before, then they shouldn’t really carry on an “emotional affair” and instead focus on fulfilling a commitment they made to their families by marrying someone of their choice 10 years ago.