NomiCA
July 5, 2011, 10:46am
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Re: Fidelity’s going out of style like it’s 1999
In the other, they are the sort, either one or both, who have friendships with the opposite gender i ndividually, who socialise a lot, who have free time left over in their life to go out with friends etc either alone or together. In the first it’s easier not to cheat because you dont have the opportunity which you must resist, and focus only on your spouse. In the latter, things can get messy in the sense that if they are **already talking with members of the opposite gender, hanging out etc, there may be times when their spouse is unavailable, or unable to give them the time and attention they want, whereas the “friends”, any one of them might be able to and especially, in confiding the marital issues between the spouses with outsiders, the husband or wife is already in a prime place to cheat emotionally. He/she feels vulnerable. Angry at the spouse, and grateful for the sympathetic ear or shoulder. **
You mean the best friend of the opposite sex?? Like if you go talk that BFF about your life decisions and seek emotiona support first …