Re: Fidelity’s going out of style like it’s 1999
why would a person have an emotional affair if all is fine with her/his spouse. I just don’t understand that. the man/woman that a person is married to is wonderful but isn’t as romantic or isn’t as attentive as another, I still don’t see how there can be an emotional affair, why isn’t the person trying from their side to communicate what he/she wants…it’s like the adulterers are speaking a language i don’t understand, in a relationship i would put my all to make it work in terms of all departments. i think for me even the word divorce is something that shouldn’t even be thought of unless it’s a volatile, painful relationship other types where it’s tiny issues, emotional affairs along with physical ones are just such low, slime ridden acts.
if the person has to fall in love with somebody else then just divorce and be done with it, our mind tells us that it’s just wrong to have an affair, emotionally or physically, even before we act on it. it makes me angry to think that a person would give up such a good thing just b/c they emotionally connected with somebody, we emotionally connect with so many people that doesn’t mean that we act on it especially when our SO loves,cares, is nonabusive…it makes me pissed if a woman or a man has all that and she/he would still have an affair..
/rant over