You could try reverse psychology...y'know go all Elmyra Fudd on him. Call him every half hour and smother him with terms of endearment. Tell him what his post-shaadi hourly schedule will be like; make sure to reserve him no free time to spend with his friends, his playstation, his family, his pet, his conscience, his farishtay, his shadow. Make it all about you and love. In fact, pronounce it as "lowe" from now onwards. He just might back off, Siren.
Here’s a link to the article, it’s actually written by a Hasidic Jewish guy (a form of judaism very close to Islam). He actually got a lot of positive response from Muslims and conservative Christians, ppl who don’t believe in the hallmark card brand of love, or the love they sell to u in the movies. I think he really hit the nail on the head. Articulated something that I have always felt, prior to being engaged or anything.
I agree. To keep the spark going you have to have more than just the cards, chocolates and candlelight dinners. I think practical love is the one that should be celebrated on V day and every other day. Doing something for someone they don’t expect. Trying to do something you’re not good at but that the other person will appreciate.
OP, if i was you I would say it is easy to say “I love you” to someone but harder to show it through actions and he should show his love is not typical love. He can show his love by helping you out or your family out when they least expect it. Calling you and talking to your parents, seeing how they are, enquiring about your siblings. If your family needs extra hands or help for some event or activity he can offer. If one of your siblings needs help with something and he has the knowledge to help he can offer to help.
Sometimes spontaneous hallmark romance is also good to have :)*
Not going to lie, that is so unattractive. Someone who is completely incapable of distinguishing like from love in the beginning stages of an interaction is acting like an idiot. My neighbor ended a rishta with her fiance because he kept insisting that he loved her even though they didn't know each other. That sounds super annoying.
Not goin to lie. That sounds like a made up story. I seriously doubt you'd break up with someone because they love you. There's gotta be more to the story than this. Was he:
A) stalking her?
B) Insisting she quit her school/work so they could spend all their time together?
C) Spying on her?
D) Deranged or doing some other cray thing?