Fiance keeps saying he loves me ...

[Siren]

Re: Fiance keeps saying he loves me …

@icemelt7

Umm I don’t understand, why the guilt? Guilt means you did something wrong. Us guys feel it is finally our time to shine, finally we have a girl who we can shower with love, affection and all that, be all romeo and Fawad Khan on them … We share our feelings and all that… About the fear of unknown, yes in moments when we feel down, we do feel that what have we done? Our lives are ruined, we have a another person in our life to who we have to answer, our independence is gone, no longer can I walk shirt less, don’t shave for weeks and throw my clothes around the house and wake up whenever the hell I want…

But then we look at the bright side, finally we can cuddle up to someone who smells nice in a comfy blanket with pop-corn and watch a movie and laugh at it :D… This feeling fills us with joy, and we look forwards to it :D…

^ some ramblings from a guy’s mind

I did say “unfounded” feelings of guilt. But now I think about it, Islam doesn’t really recognize “engaged” as a marital state. It’s nikah or nothing, so technically romantic interactions are still inappropriate at this stage, no?