Fiance keeps saying he loves me ...

[Siren]

Re: Fiance keeps saying he loves me …

@icemelt7

Ok good advice. Although do tell if what I said about him made sense to you.

Just another tiny question, my girl talks less, acts a bit indifferent when with me. Doesn’t show too much emotion, and it hurts me. I feel shes forcefully with me. I tried asking her that, but she says no she likes being with me and that isn’t the case. I always thought that having a fiance would be like having a girl friend just like in the movies … I was SOO wrong ..

Yea it kinda does. It’s just thinking about that freaks the hell outa me, but I guess guys are just wire differently.
Real life is definitely not like the movies. Even people who are dating don’t act that way. I would give her the benefit of doubt. She might just be nervous, or it may be tha she’s having residual feelings of guilt. By tht I mean, us brown girls hav spen all our lives putting up walls against guys so it’s kind if hard to let down our defenses all of a sudden. Just curious. Do guys not feel that way? No unfounded feelings of guilt? No fear of the unknown?